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Finding Love After 60

Finding Love After 60

Love is not just for the young. We all crave affection and closeness, regardless of our age. Whether 17 or 67, most of us long for someone to talk to, laugh, snuggle, and grow with.

In their 7th decade, most people are in long-lasting marriages or relationships. However, statistics show that a shocking 45 percent of U.S. adults are single.

Why do so many people in their 50s and 60s stay uncoupled? Have they just given up on trying to find a partner to spend their life with?

Is finding love after 60 really that hard? And how to better your chances of meeting ‘the one’ in your 60s?

What are the Odds of Finding Love After 60?

A study from the University of Bath in the U.K. shows that the odds of finding love after 60 are 1 in 562 – but only if you leave meeting the love of your life to fate. However, if you act proactively and take some steps to meet new people, you will likely improve your odds of finding love after 60.

The researchers considered 18 factors such as age, physical attractiveness, location, etc., to calculate the chances of falling in love in late adulthood.

According to science, you will boost your chances to find love in your 60s if you do things such as meeting people through online dating sites or hobbies, connecting with colleagues and their friends, or meeting your friends’ friends.

In short, if you socialize and make an effort to connect with others, you are significantly increasing your odds of finding love after 60.

So, consider signing up for dance classes in your neighborhood, joining a local gym, or volunteering in your community.

Community gatherings such as bingo nights, hiking trips, or city celebrations are fantastic opportunities to meet new people, make friends, and find love after 60.

What Does a 60-Year-Old Man Want in a Relationship?

Despite the old myth that older men are attracted to younger women, the truth is that most 60-year-olds want to be in a relationship with someone closer to their age. This is because most aging men look for someone who shares common interests, history, and humor.

Most men in their 60s know what they want. They have rich love and life experience that has made them wiser, more thoughtful, and more realistic.

So, a 60-year-old man will most likely want your friendship, companionship, and attention. Most 60-year-old men look for someone who shares their interests and values. Someone with a similar life philosophy to discuss the topics they both find interesting, make decisions as a couple, in unity, and enjoy activities they both enjoy.

For example, a 60-year-old man passionate about the outdoors will most likely look for a partner with similar interests to share an active lifestyle with.

Some men in their 60s love spending time at home, watching T.V., cooking, reading, or gardening, so they may want to find a special one who enjoys the very same things.

What Percentage of 60-Year-Olds are Single?

According to the U.S. Census Bureau data, a significantly increasing number of people are staying alone as they age – 45 percent of Americans in their 50s and 60s are single today, in comparison to 28 percent in 1960.

The increased number of single people age 50 and up is caused by a decline in marriage among working adults and a rising divorce rate among Baby Boomers (nearly doubled since the 1990s). Also, many people over the age of 60 have lost their spouses and they are still grieving.

According to a Pew Research Center report, around four in ten adults ages 25 to 54 were neither married nor living with a partner in 2019. In addition, their research shows that men are more likely than women to be single.

How Do I Meet a Man After 60?

Staying socially and physically active is the best way to meet a man after 60. In addition to keeping up good mental and physical health, busy social life and active physical lifestyle can help you find a special man to spend your life with.

Most women raised in the 60s and 70s are taught to be independent and strong. They were brought up believing that they don’t need men in their lives to feel happy and fulfilled.

However, many women find independence lonely and isolating as they age; they know that a woman does not have to be alone to be independent.

So, think of all real-life and online networking that can help you find love in your 60s.

  • First, think of all the people you know and make an effort to connect with their friends, relatives, or acquaintances.
  • Go out and meet new people on your own. Who says you can’t meet the love of your life in the grocery store, bar, or park?
  • Consider joining a local gym or hiking group in your community. Sports-related activities can be an excellent opportunity to meet people and find the love of your life.
  • Get involved in activities you enjoy. Hobbies such as painting, coloring, poetry, or gardening provide fun and entertainment, at the same time allowing you to relax and meet people who share similar interests or passions.
  • Try online dating. You can choose from a great selection of online dating sites for mature singles to search for groups of interest to you and meet other people who are looking for friendship and love.

What is the Most Beautiful Age of a Woman?

Studies suggest that women’s peak beauty age is in their 30s. Most women are considered to be most beautiful around the 30th birthday.

However, the truth is that a woman is most beautiful when she feels confident in her own skin, and that has nothing to with age.

What Does a 60-Year-Old Woman Want in a Relationship?

For most 60-year-old women, the whole concept of romance and love is different than in their 20s, 30s, or 40s. Mature single women primarily seek friendship, love, and stability. In addition, a 60-year-old woman wants to be appreciated and accepted for who she truly is.

As there is no longer a goal of having children, a 60-year-old woman can relax in her new relationship, looking for a partner who shares similar interests, values, or passions. In addition, they seek emotional closeness, psychological bonding, and intimate connection with someone friendly, caring, and kind.

Most aging women seek someone with whom they can share daily lives, laughter, and adventures; a friend and a lover. Also, if you are 60 and up, you are most likely looking for a relationship based on honesty and fidelity, with no drama, addiction, or abuse.

How Does a 60-Year-Old Woman Flirt?

In general, the way older women flirt does not fundamentally differ from how younger women do it. However, there are some differences due to a woman’s age and experience.

Most mature women are more open and straightforward in communication with men than younger women. For example, a woman in her 60s will look at you and hold your gaze, smiling at you friendly. She will initiate the conversation and listen to you attentively. Or she will give you compliments and touch you occasionally while talking to you.

Again, this openness in flirting comes from a woman’s experience and confidence. Older women know what they want from a relationship, so they usually waste time sending blurred signs.

How Do I Find Love in My 60s?

  • Know What You Want: You need to be proactive if you want to find love in your 60s. But it is also very important to be honest about what you are looking for. Is it a companion for an occasional walk, movie, or lunch? A sexual partner? A soulmate? Or all of the abovementioned? A good understanding of what you expect from a relationship can help you find the right person for yourself.
  • Accept Yourself: We cannot give love and compassion to others if we don’t love ourselves. Loving yourself means being self-compassionate. It means treating yourself with kindness, understanding, and acceptance you offer to people you care for. It also means having a positive body image and feeling good in your own body. Also, self-love involves confidence in your own abilities and your need to constantly self-improve and grow.
  • Consider Online Dating Services: Senior dating sites can be a great place to have conversations with people your age, connect with other singles, expand your network, and find the right one. However, be cautious when dating online as there are people who would take advantage of vulnerable individuals.
  • Let Your Friends Help: Spread the word among family, friends, and other people you trust that you are open to meeting a potential life partner., you never know.

But most importantly, keep in mind that finding love in your 60s begins with loving yourself.



CatherineMarch 21, 2022 at 10:53 pmReply

Hi my name is Catherine, I’m 64 and I’m retired too. I volunteer but I don’t work. live in Radcliffe Kentucky I’m very healthy and I don’t mind working out. I would love to start communicating with you just to get a relationship started that would be great.

SimonJuly 19, 2022 at 1:05 pmReply

Hi my name is SimonI am 61 I am still working.i live and work in Trowbridge Wiltshire I live at home with my Divorce wife. Youngest daughter. I would like to start communicating and build up a friendship

GuyOctober 3, 2022 at 11:18 amReply

Hi Catherine, I see this is a bit of an old post but I happen to fall on it looking for what everyone else here is, but seems to be having the same trouble I’m having.
My name is Guy and I’m 65. I’ll be moving to Kentucky in a few months. I see you live there and that is what got my attention. I also see you’re health conscious. I like that. I am too. I keep pretty fit.
If you’re still there, and this is of any interest, please write. 🙂

GlendaApril 16, 2022 at 2:21 amReply

Have you met someone with your post? I am curious if this site actually works!

ReggieJuly 17, 2022 at 10:38 pmReply

Hi this is Reggie … I like to snuggle.. I just like mature women… is there something I can do to make you happy

ReggieJuly 17, 2022 at 10:41 pmReply

Hi this is Reggie … I like to snuggle.. I just like mature women… is there something I can do to make you happy … are you far from Orcutt ca pretty girl

ReggieJuly 17, 2022 at 10:43 pmReply

I don’t no if that was bad to say .. if it was I’m sorry

SheriApril 16, 2022 at 9:33 amReply

Hey there. I’m 61 in NW Oregon. Curious that if 45% of over 60’s are single, why do we have such a challenging time finding love? I suppose we assume everyone is happily married. I rarely date. I’m physically and mentally fit. Perhaps I should socialize more – but I don’t like bars. Are dating websites a good idea?

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Aaron SinykinApril 17, 2022 at 2:38 amReply

It doesn’t hurt to put yourself out there and see what comes back, dating sites, country clubs, even just the grocery store. It’s challenging finding love at any age honestly. The best pick-up line is “Hello, my name is ________ .”
PaulAugust 29, 2022 at 11:19 pmReply

Email Paul let’s talk I live in Washingto n

JMTMay 18, 2022 at 10:25 amReply

I find that men my age, 60 still want to be with women who are 10-15 years younger. With online dating the men are never as tall as they say, I am 5’8! I am in good shape, athletic, and am financially independent. I play pickle ball, hike, kayak, attend live music concerts, etc. To find a date in Northern VA is nearly impossible with a normal person! Seems like all the good ones are married! Not trying to be negative.

IndieMay 30, 2022 at 8:58 pmReply

I’ve been dating a man for 1yr 2mos. He’s 66. I’m 68. We got very attached to each other. I think he was more attached, but my feelings were deeper. We’re about to split, tho, because he wants to leave things as they are & not progress it further. I’m financially stable, in excellent health, nonsmoker, own my own home. He thinks I’m beautiful (I’m not, but he thinks so). I still have my figure. Our personalities mesh. Our time together is fun, easy going, no drama. He is taller than I am, financially reasonably well off, but has a pot belly, drinks too much, smokes, a face that shows he’s an outdoorsman, and although I think he’s cute and sexy, he’s not a handsome man. Yet, I don’t seem enough for him to commit to. I’m thinking…If what I have to offer isn’t enough to get HIM to want to commit to me, I guess I’ve gone past the age of finding love with anyone. I think it must be my age. And I can’t change that. I may have to resign myself to being alone the rest of my life. I can’t go through another relationship like this one, where I invest over a year with my time and heart, only to find I can only have a casual relationship with the man I care for. Oh, well. Things could be worse, I guess.

GentlemenjimAugust 4, 2022 at 8:01 pmReply

You sound awesome.

KristinaSeptember 10, 2022 at 7:15 amReply

Go no contact on him. To heal yourself but also to see if he misses you. Read up on no contact.

Rena SylvesterNovember 8, 2022 at 6:42 amReply

He sounds like a idiot!

George PoulosJune 5, 2022 at 6:45 amReply

You sound like a wonderful woman and you deserve better and you deserve whatever you need to be happy and it’s too bad some men don’t see that

JMJuly 22, 2022 at 6:32 pmReply

Women nowadays have really changed from the past unfortunately since most women nowadays are very high maintenance, independent, since they really don’t want a man anymore, very selfish, greedy, spoiled, picky, narcissists, gold diggers, cheaters, and the list keeps on growing. Most women just can’t accept us men for who we really are either. And there are so many very nasty low life loser women today that really like to Curse at many of us men for no reason at all when we will just try to start a conversation with them by just saying good morning or hello. What in the world is that all about when i know other single friends that had the very same thing happened to them as well? How in the world can many of us single men find love, now that most women these days are so very rotten and evil?

SusanJuly 23, 2022 at 5:35 pmReply

Wow you’ve been dating the female version of my ex’s. Lol. I’m just kidding. Guess I shouldn’t make light of your comment but at this point making light of this is about all that’s left. It’s strange how hard it is to connect with anyone. Also the hoops we need to jump through and the process of proving ourselves while trying to figure out the other person. Stay open minded and not judge but too old to lie to ourselves. There really are hood people out there. But maybe we get too busy with a list of yes and no.

ThereseNovember 6, 2022 at 4:38 pm

If you men want to meet kind unselfish women start volunteering at church or soup kitchens or helping the homeless. Or some other organization that is out there helping those less fortunate. That’s where the kind, unselfish women are.

CaryAugust 26, 2022 at 12:59 amReply

I agree with JM, I could tell you so many stories about my dates and meetings with women over the last couple of years, I do feel women are rude, shallow, tight, they don’t have to travel, the list goes on. I’ve accepted that I won’t meet a nice honest loyal person like myself.
All you women …. Grow Up

HarrietSeptember 10, 2022 at 3:36 pmReply

You’re expressing that you dislike and mistrust women. Try to imagine that you are hearing from a woman who expressed her general mistrust and dislike of men: you would probably consider her negative and bitter, and would not be attracted to her. To present a more positive face, remind yourself why you like women, what you enjoy about female company, and imagine the relationship you would like to create with a woman. Consider the type of man you need to be to have the relationship you desire. There are lovely women everywhere, looking for kind men.

IndieSeptember 19, 2022 at 5:44 amReply

I’m not at all like that. Where are these women who are mean? Are you trying to meet them in bars? My experience during my younger happy hour and party days, you don’t usually meet quality people in bars. They’re often drunken party types, superficial, basing their connections on appearance and perceived wealth alone. I never met a man in a bar that I cared to see for any length of time, or known anyone else who has. I don’t think I’ve been evil & nasty to any man. I have nicely turned down dates with some because they weren’t my type. That’s no different than men seeing or meeting me don’t ask me out because I’m not their type. Still, bars are a go-to for men to hunt women. There’s no other place where women who are available congregate and want to meet men, I guess. I don’t go to bars, though. I go to the gym, walking in the parks, run errands in stores like Home Depot, eat occasionally alone for lunch in healthy sort of places like Jason’s Deli, maybe Starbucks sometimes, grocery stores. I’m a homeowner so I go to hardware stores a lot.

IndieSeptember 19, 2022 at 5:53 amReply

P.S. to my prior reply to your post: I was referring to women in your own age bracket. I HAVE been direct when responding to much older men who asked me out in my younger days. Not mean, but direct. When a much older man would ask me out, I’d think of all the women in his age bracket who’d have loved to go out with him, but there he was, asking me out – a woman young enough to be his daughter. I remember telling one man, after learning that he’d asked around about me – even my employer – before determining I was good enough for him to ask out. When he called, I politely told him the truth, “I’m sorry. There’s too much of an age difference.” Click. I mean…seriously…why would an attractive young woman – go out with a man my father’s age, when I could go out with young attractive men in my own age bracket? Only a gold digger would do that. And then men complain about gold diggers.

And I AgreeAugust 23, 2022 at 10:07 amReply

Susan, that guy though was very right on the money with his comment above yours. Women today are nothing at all like the past when back in the old days women were really taught respect since most of them were raised by good parents, and today most women do really stink unfortunately since their parents themselves are very horrible as well. So for many of us single guys finding love really isn’t easy at all because of the very big change in the women now unfortunately. As a single guy myself i was always hoping to meet the right good woman to settle down with to have a family that i still don’t have today. Very dangerous for many of us just to try to start a conversation with a woman just like the other guy said, and with so many very mentally disturbed women that are everywhere now which we will have to be very careful. Too bad that many of us weren’t born in the past which we would’ve very easily been all settled down ourselves, instead of dealing with this mess today that the women have caused now. Just too many narcissists and feminists women all over the place today.

HelenAugust 28, 2022 at 1:09 pmReply

I would like to your comment regarding the amount of male and female which are looking dating online for the wrong reasons because the are not genuine, in paper anybody can say wonderful things about themselves. I’m a widow in my early seventies I wasn’t born yesterday I can see humanity has changed, it’s so sad to read and see women and men they need to love themselves before looking for love on line.

SusanSeptember 4, 2022 at 3:54 pmReply

I think the men who described women in negative terms were not speaking to women in their same age bracket. If they were they would have said that. Also, women in their 60’s don’t act like that. That rudeness to men who are trying to talk to them sounds like women 45 and younger.

If that’s the case then maybe take a minute and remember what the culture was like back when they were growing up in the 80’s & started dating in the 90’s. That will help you understand the values of women in that demographic. I don’t know how many remember that iconic song “No Scrubs” by TLC that was out in 1999. Some of the expressions are outdated but I think it expresses the attitude of women who grew up & were young adults in that era:
“A scrub is a guy that thinks he’s fly
And is also known as a busta
Always talkin’ about what he wants
And just sits on his broke ass

So no, I don’t want your number
No, I don’t want to give you mine and
No, I don’t want to meet you nowhere
No, I don’t want none of your time

Well a scrub checkin’ me
But his game is kinda weak
And I know that he cannot approach me
‘Cause I’m looking like class, and he’s looking like trash”

So I would say to men in their 60’s trying to date women in their forties, are you looking like “class” or “trash” according to their standards? Do you spend money lavishly or are you cheap ? Are you just talking about what you want or are you asking them what they want? If not, then perhaps they’re rude because they are offended you didn’t bring your “A game” when approaching them.

I think dating in that era was about impressing the woman, meeting a woman’s standards for men she wants to date. For those of us in our 60’s and older it was maybe the last generation where it was mostly ¹about what the man wanted. For women dating in the 70’s & 80’s they were expected to fulfill societal roles that were still male focused. Women who were trying to ” catch a husband” had to look pretty & put together all the time, be feminine, know how to cook, be willing to do all the cleaning up, be focused on pleasing their men sexually, and wanted to one day make a home & raise kids. Also, before the AIDS awareness campaigns started (pre-1987) women were almost totally reasonable for birth control. It took the AIDs epidemic for a majority of men to regularly use condoms.

During that time frame, I think the expectations for men were to either be a good provider or be on the path to being a good provider, as well as being strong and confident. And being a good provider varied on where & how you were living.

If men in their 60’s think those attitudes on a retired income is going to be attractive to younger women you need to wake up, stop complaining, start making more money, update your look, get an expensive new car, and be very interested in the woman you are trying to get close to. Interested in her, her kids, and be willing to help her financially.

If she is physically fit then you need to get to the gym, too. If she is an entrepreneur then you can’t be about slowing down and enjoying your grand kids. You will need to speed up and learn about crypto, etc.

The most important thing you will need to do when pursuing younger women (45 & younger) is be actively engaged on social media. In fact, if you can become a podcaster or be an influencer on Instagram or YouTube you will be golden.

These are generational differences in values and outlooks. All those negative comments about women just make you seem like that bitter, old guy at the end of the block who yells at kids for making too much noise. We know you’re not that guy. So don’t give in to bitterness, dudes! Get some airpods for your iphone, find some rockin’ tunes online and get to work!

I’m about to go offline and start rockin’ to either Tool or RATM while cleaning up on a Sunday afternoon. Love to all of us!!

MarieSeptember 5, 2022 at 10:21 pmReply

I think men in their 60s trying to date much younger will have to learn to relate to kids, but It sounds so tedious when the arm candy won’t do much to learn about them. But as a fit and active 60+, I’ve found online dating to be dismal. I’ve a,ways been social and out there. Finding someone appropriate and compatible is hard—it’s a numbers game. You have to keep trying.
Sooner and sometime but never think never

IndieSeptember 19, 2022 at 5:55 amReply

P.S. to my prior reply to your post: I was referring to women in your own age bracket. I HAVE been direct when responding to much older men who asked me out in my younger days. Not mean, but direct. When a much older man would ask me out, I’d think of all the women in his age bracket who’d have loved to go out with him, but there he was, asking me out – a woman young enough to be his daughter. I remember telling one man, after learning that he’d asked around about me – even my employer – before determining I was good enough for him to ask out. When he called, I politely told him the truth, “I’m sorry. There’s too much of an age difference.” Click. I mean…seriously…why would an attractive young woman – go out with a man my father’s age, when I could go out with young attractive men in my own age bracket? Only a gold digger would do that. And then men complain about gold diggers.

Not Single By ChoiceSeptember 24, 2022 at 5:18 amReply

Unfortunately for many of us younger single guys very seriously looking for love has certainly become so very difficult since the women today aren’t like the past at all when meeting a very nice woman back then was definitely way much easier than today. A great deal of these women today are very evil rotten low life losers with no manners and personality at all when many of us guys will try to start a conversation with them. And we really have to be very careful of sexual harassment on top of it all as well. Oh boy, have women really changed today from the old days now that there are so many feminists and narcissists type of women everywhere which has really become very dangerous for us now. Years ago, it was never about looks and wealth that most women want today either. Now these women today want the very best of all, and will never settle for less because of their greed and selfishness now unfortunately. It is very obvious why our family members really lucked out years ago when they met each other, since the times were very completely different back then. Too many gold digger type of women today that go with guys that are a good twenty to thirty years older than they’re just for the money, since they know these guys will spend money on them like crazy. Well there are a lot of us very good guys out there that don’t make that great money at all, but it is still enough for us to live on. It is very amazing how much different that most women were in those early days, since they really had to struggle like most guys too just to make ends meat. These are the reasons why so many of us single guys are still single today because of this, since many of us aren’t single by choice either. The type of women nowadays are really too blame for that one.

Jeff bawdenSeptember 24, 2022 at 11:33 pmReply

Post covit dating is difficult,meeting is difficult,for men online dating is a waste of time money,positive how do men and women meet now

Joyce A BarrientosSeptember 30, 2022 at 1:40 amReply

I’ve been asking myself the same things. Dating sites have just stressed me .

CatherineNovember 5, 2022 at 6:13 amReply

Hi Jeff don’t know your age I’m just turned 63 don’t seem to now or meet people born in 1959. I’m a very friendly person to all young and older. I’ve raised a lovely child and now have time for myself and find myself doing most things on my own or with my sister or cousin since they are the only persons I know near my age. I have never been the type to try to pick up someone. I just would enjoy meeting a person who likes me for myself. I’m not homely however I feel I’ve aged gracefully. During the pandemic I allowed my salt and pepper to come in and I’ve embraced it. I feel men usually are considered distinguished while women are sometimes made to feel extinguished. There is a time in life you need to embrace the good in yourself and that’s where I am. I believe there are a lot of lonely people out there because they don’t see what’s right in front of them. Saying hi to someone you don’t know yet is just being friendly and my lead to more. In other words I haven’t meet mr right but it doesn’t mean I’ll ever be to old to still be interested. Good luck to all be friendly who knows!

Exhausted AngelSeptember 26, 2022 at 4:28 pmReply

The love of many is growing cold… because the world is changing and we’re having a tough time keeping up with it. I’ve noticed that people fail to acknowledge each other. Remember the days when men whistled at women? Or actually let women see them ogling? And remember the days when women flirted with men through a simple look, when she remembered how to use her feminine energy? Even an innocent tip of a man’s hat, there was a game we played, and both sides learned the rules. But now the rules have changed. It’s all about ignoring one another now. We can’t let someone know we’re into them. A man can’t whistle or ogle now because then he’s called a stalker or a creep. And a woman can’t bat her eyelashes at a man now because he honestly wouldn’t even know how to read it… he’d wonder if she had something in her eye. That’s how far removed we are, folks. The days of men wooing and pursuing women are over. Romantic gestures are now a foreign language. We ignore each other, ghost each other, and play the game of, “let’s see who can take the longest to respond, so I don’t appear too eager.” Let’s see who wins the game of pretending they don’t need the other person. And so, we treat each other like we don’t exist. It’s the new way to hurt someone, when we’ve been hurt. Indifference is the new slap in the face. It’s fueled from pain and fear, and it’s the opposite of love. We need radical honesty to combat this downward slope into lover’s hell. We need conscious, compassionate communication that says, “I’m going to put myself out there and say how I feel, and ask how they feel. And at least I’ll have self-respect, and know, without having to guess or play games. It’s exhausting pretending not to care, pretending we weren’t hurt, trying not to be too keen or eager, and waiting for someone else to make the first move. God, radical honesty is refreshing, and it’s the answer we all need, if we’re courageous enough to step into it. Romance is devolving folks. We need to stop it in its tracks and speak our minds, and our hearts, and ACKNOWLEDGE one another. Don’t look away! We exist! Look each other in the eye. Stare and notice and smile! Say something kind to someone. Let them know you see they’re alive on planet earth! We’ve all been hurt so bad, we’re bleeding on each other! Stop the muting, restricting, blocking, ghosting, unfollowing crap. Don’t let the Internet and social media start a war on love. Fight back. Get real. Communicate with love and compassion. Remember the days of dignity. I say this to myself as well. 🙂

Joyce A BarrientosSeptember 30, 2022 at 1:41 amReply

I’ve been asking myself the same things. Dating sites have just stressed me .

Joyce A BarrientosSeptember 30, 2022 at 1:42 amReply

I’ve been asking the same myself.. I’ve tried dating sites but they can be exhausting and very unsafe.

MarkOctober 3, 2022 at 10:13 amReply

I been reading many comments from the guys what they were saying about women nowadays which is very true how women have really changed from the past, when meeting a good woman back then was very easy with no problem at all for those men that were very seriously looking for love. There were certainly much better and easier ways for a single man to meet the woman that he really wanted to meet with the help of family members, friends, neighbors, going to school, and going to parties as well. Today to go out as a single man myself it is very extremely difficult to meet a good woman all over again after my ex wife of almost 15 years cheated on me. And i really thought that she was the one since i was very happy when i met her back in October of 1984 for the first time at a club. And after that dumb low life loser was caught cheating on me which she even had the nerve to say that we can have an open marriage if you like. What? Really? Well that wasn’t going to happen which then i found a good lawyer and was divorced believe it or not in just as little as 3 weeks which was the best thing that ever happened to me after what she did. And i was lucky that she signed the divorce papers right away which made my divorce a lot easier than what other people are going through today. And i always wanted children as well before this happened to me which it really turned out to be a good thing for me that i didn’t have any children with that loser. Now single and alone again which really isn’t fun at all for me, especially when i see how very extremely lucky other people were when they met their loved ones.

JerniganOctober 4, 2022 at 7:19 pmReply

Hello, I’m a 60 year old woman living in a small town. Still working full time and looking forward to retirement. Having spent the last 30 years divorced, my time has been devoted to raising children. Vacations taken over the last 15 years have been used for weddings, graduations, moves and welcoming grandchildren. Not complaining, just stating facts. Now what?!
I’m not even sure how to date. What are the dating rules now? It would be so lovely to find a like minded gentleman to live life with. I don’t care how tall, wealthy or handsome you might be. To be honest, a little help would be appreciated. Simple things around the house. Two make the load lighter? However, I’ve recently considered downsizing because of the size of this place. Anyway, I’m rambling on and on. It’s just difficult at this age for many.

Blue bellOctober 17, 2022 at 5:45 pmReply

Hello! I am a super super cute woman and I am looking for my last love! I know you’re out there and maybe you’re here ! ♥️
We are going to be amazingly happy because I know you have been waiting for me !! I’ve been waiting for you for a long time ! Let me know!

violetOctober 18, 2022 at 10:17 amReply

What a great thread to stumble onto!! The online dating thing has been extremely stressful for me. I am very honest in my dating profile about what kind of relationship I am looking for. But sadly the past year and a half I dated a cheater and a train wreck.

The men in their 60’s i have encountered want fulltime relationships living together/marriage and I want no part of it. I am financially secure, love my home, and simply want a travel mate and best friend and if it’s fun romantically even better! It’s proven this type of relationship works really well especially when you are older and the family/kids thing has long since ended. And as far as gold-digging i have to say that dating a rich man is awful!!! It makes me feel insecure and intimidated. Also it goes against my whole ideal of as a couple we pay our own way. He wants to go to some crazy expensive restaurant I can’t afford it what do I do? And does he want to go el cheapo with me?

Now I am feeling like just enjoying myself and my family, my dogs and “me, myself, and I” you sometimes can’t wait around for fun to show up you just have to go out and find it yourself. Solo vacations are not all that bad!!!

MarkOctober 26, 2022 at 12:08 amReply

I think all of you complaining on this site should just give up and move to Sun city AZ. Dating sites are easy to find women to date and guys who want the old days are dated in mindset. I’m 60 and date all the time down to age 40 or so. I do like women my age but they are all sexually dead after menopause mostly try and be in the eternal friends zone and try to make men wait for sex endlessly. I just move on from those types as I know my worth. I look like I’m in my early 50s so I can get away with dating younger women who still seem vibrant. I bought a new Porsche and left my ex who basically said she didn’t want sex anymore but wanted me to live as a roomate with her after menopause… forget that I’m not dead and my gear still works great. I’m having such a good time now.. and I will probably live longer since men living in a sexless marriage will statistically die sooner.

sueNovember 1, 2022 at 2:47 pmReply

You sound pretty unpleasant Mark, and actually, lots of women love sex after the menopause !

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Hi everyone I’m Bev I’m a woman that’s young at heart❤ I don’t have a list of what I’m looking for honey just let him be humorous I enjoy humor 😉 live, laughter, love, its in the attitude. Bev

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